
This podcast is for women who want to seek, find, and live the abundant life Jesus offers by cutting down the noise and chaos in their lives and their brains. This is a place where everyone is welcome, everyone has a seat at the table, and everyone is seen and heard. We'll talk about scripture, ADHD, listening prayer, forgiveness, and so much more. Join me on this journey to abundant life! 🪴
Episodes
71- · 25 minTrusting God When Everything Falls Apart (Recorded the Day It Happened) | Voice Notes
My Bible was open to Philippians 4 when the message came in. Effective immediately, the majority of my contract work is on pause, and most of my side income with it. So I hit record with my journal still open, and you get to hear what trusting God when everything falls apart sounds like in real time. I'm not on the other side of this one. I don't know how the numbers are going to work. What I do know is the passage I was reading when it hit: "I can do all things through him who strengthens me" comes right after Paul talks about having little and having plenty, being well fed and going hungry. That's the secret he learned. And I'm getting to practice it again. We get into what happens when God's definition of good looks nothing like ours, why His provision has sometimes looked like Him clearing space in my life, and why trusting Him doesn't mean pretending this doesn't really freaking suck. If you're carrying a diagnosis, a job loss, struggles in a relationship or the weight of everything on your plate, and you keep downplaying it because someone else has it worse, you're welcome here. Jesus doesn't make you qualify it first. How did the disciples grieve without missing the resurrection? What does cat eye nail polish have to do with hardship? And where was God working in the losses you haven't looked back at yet? Got a story of God showing up in something that looked like a loss at the time? I'd love to hear it. Email me at rachel@rachelgrit.com, anonymously or with your name on it. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 13 minBite-sized Biblecast | What If God's Approval Is an Idol? | Romans 8:9-17
I sat down with Romans 8 this morning and got my stuff completely rocked. I'm a recovering people pleaser. So is half of my audience, if I had to guess. And while I was sitting with verses 9 through 17, something occurred to me that I have not been able to put down since. What if God's approval was an idol? I know how that sounds. How could trying to please God be an idol? But what if the thing we're actually chasing is the FEELING of being approved of, the feeling of being good enough - and not genuine connection with Him at all? Then I did some listening prayer and asked Him where I'm holding back. He said: your fear of rejection reaches even to me. You don't feel fully safe even with me. Let me heal you. Whew. What if releasing the need to do it right isn't taking the easy way out? What if it's refusing to give God less than He deserves? And why did it take me 2 weeks to pick my prayer journal back up? Reading from the NRSVUE. Takeaways: - Your flesh doesn't get to define you, and that includes the parts of an ADHD brain you've been apologizing for - Actions show the priorities of the heart, so it's worth asking what chasing approval actually reveals - Seeking the feeling of approval can quietly lower God to the level of every other person whose approval you've chased - You cannot attain His approval by performing, and you already have it - Hard truth and ridiculous grace sit together in this passage, the same way they sit together in the whole faith - If you want to read the whole Bible but can't stick to a plan, just highlight what you've read in alternating colors and fill in the gaps Sit with Romans 8:9-17 today. Then ask Him: Jesus, where am I holding back authenticity and connection from you? And if you're looking for the free Noise Journal (lil bundle of upgrades available if you need the extra support, but the guided journal itself is free), you can find that here.
- · 19 minWhy I Compulsively Avoid Silence, and What Changed When I Stopped | Voice Notes
I listen to something almost every waking minute. YouTube in the car, a podcast while I cook, the Office every single night to fall asleep. I've done that for years. This week God asked me for intentional silence, and I genuinely did not want to do it. I aimed for an hour a day. Realistically it was more like 30 to 45 minutes, and never all at once. The 30 minute drive home after school dropoff. A 10 minute shower. Cooking dinner. And the first couple of minutes, every single time, were almost physically uncomfortable. Then on the way to the pharmacy I pulled up to a stoplight, noticed the leaves starting to turn, and cracked my window for a little autumn breeze. The peepers filled the car. I never would have rolled that window down if something had been playing. I wouldn't have even thought to. Why does an ADHD brain compulsively avoid silence in the first place? What actually happens to your overall noise level after a week of this? And why is this a teeny tiny action step instead of a whole lifestyle overhaul? Here's the thing about noise canceling headphones in a loud restaurant. The room gets quieter. And you can hear your friend even less. Takeaways: Noise isn't only auditory. For some people it's visual, and the same principle applies Constant background stimuli pauses the spinning. It doesn't process it The discomfort is front-loaded. The first couple of minutes are the hard part, not the whole stretch You don't need to schedule it. Attach it to a task you already do - one drive, one shower, one meal Start at 5 minutes. This is a teeny tiny action step, not a silence practice Your brain needs a break in order to process. The silence is what lets it defrag If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 11 minBite-sized Biblecast | Loving Your Enemies: A Cozy Thunderstorm Chat | Luke 6:27-36
Loving our enemies isn’t just a nice idea to keep in our Christianese arsenal; it’s a challenging practice that can transform our hearts and those around us. In this bite-sized Bible cast, we dive into Luke chapter 6, where the call to love our enemies is laid out in stark terms. I share a personal moment of realization about how my husband’s love reflects God’s affection for me, which got me thinking about how we can extend that love, even to those who aren't exactly on our Christmas card list. We explore how showing love to those who mistreat us isn't merely for their benefit; it’s a powerful act that can connect them to God's love in tangible ways. So grab your journal and let’s tackle some reflective prompts that can help us embody this radical love in our daily lives! Takeaways: Sitting still and reading the Bible might seem impossible somedays, and that's okay! It's not the only way to spend time with God or in His Word. Loving our enemies is not just a lofty ideal; it actively transforms our own hearts and minds. Experiencing unconditional love can reveal how God loves us through those close to us. Reflecting on how God has shown us love can extend our capacity to love others, even our enemies. Engaging with scripture like Luke 6 encourages us to act with mercy and grace, especially in divisive times. Turning the other cheek is about demanding respect and correcting others while maintaining our dignity. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 7 minVoice Notes | New podcast name, who dis?
We're making a big shift today as we officially rebrand the True Grit Podcast to the Jesus and ADHD Podcast. This change reflects my journey and the specific content I want to create, focusing on faith through the lens of ADHD. I’ve always fought hard for my name, Rachel Grit, and it’s become a core part of my identity. But as I’ve honed in on who I want to serve, I realized it’s time to make the focus less about me and more about the message we’re sharing. Join me in this exciting new chapter where we can explore living the abundant life Jesus offers, all while embracing the chaos of our minds. I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this transformation! Takeaways: This episode marks the rebranding of the True Grit Podcast to the Jesus and ADHD Podcast, reflecting a stronger alignment with my evolving message. I share my personal journey of reclaiming my name, Rachel Grit, which has become an integral part of my identity and brand. Throughout my life, I've learned that our names can carry deep personal significance, often representing our struggles and victories. The podcast's new focus aims to help women with chaotic minds discover and embrace the abundant life Jesus offers. This change is not just about me; it's about serving others through relatable content centered around faith and ADHD. I'm excited to connect more deeply with listeners and hear their thoughts on this new direction for the podcast. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 9 minChallenging Prejudice: An Ex-MAGA Christian's Reflection on Faith and Politics
We dive deep into the recent Senate victory of Abdul Al-Sayed in Michigan and explore the rising tide of Islamophobic rhetoric that has been growing, unchecked, for decades. As someone who has transitioned from a space of deep-seated bigotry as former MAGA to a more understanding perspective, I share my personal journey of transformation. I recount my experiences at a liberal college, where I was pushed out of my comfort zone and engaged in meaningful conversations with Muslim classmates. These interactions shattered the stereotypes I had long believed and opened my eyes to the dangers of propaganda that fosters mistrust. Ultimately, I urge listeners to be a supportive force for those beginning to question their biases, emphasizing the importance of welcoming dialogue over judgment as we navigate these complex societal changes together. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 10 minBite-sized Biblecast | Tension of Grace and Truth | Revelation 21:1-8
Today, we dive into Revelation 21, exploring the profound hope of a new heaven and a new earth. I know, I know - it sounds like an absolutely feral favorite book to choose, but that's just the kind of kid I was. I share a bit about my journey with my husband’s health challenges, which have made these verses about God wiping every tear from our eyes resonate deeply for me. We discuss the tension between hard truths and the ridiculous grace offered through Christ, emphasizing that our faith is a lifelong journey, not just a momentary experience. As we navigate this complex relationship with death, sin, and God's promise of renewal, I invite you to sit in that messy middle with us, reflecting on where you stand in your own faith journey. Takeaways: The idea of a new heaven and earth in Revelation gives us hope and renewal in our spiritual journey. Facing hardships like illness can deepen our faith, revealing the importance of both truth and grace. Life isn't about a single salvation moment; it's a lifelong journey of growing closer to God. We should embrace the tension between hard truths and grace, as both are essential in our faith. True faith invites us to seek deeper understanding of scripture, not just surface-level comfort. Death and suffering are real, but they push us toward a richer relationship with God and his promises. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 14 minBite-sized Biblecast | The Temptation Trap: What 1 Corinthians 10:13 Really Means
We dive into the heart of 1 Corinthians 10:13, exploring how easily this verse can be misinterpreted and weaponized if we're not careful. I’ve been away for a bit, dealing with some pretty intense life stuff, but I'm back and ready to help us get back into the rhythm of understanding scripture together. This episode is all about recognizing that while God is faithful and won't let us be tested beyond our strength, it’s crucial to understand what that really means. We often cling to the comforting idea that God won’t give us more than we can handle, but the reality is much more nuanced and demands a deeper engagement with our faith. Let’s unpack these ideas and challenge ourselves to confront the uncomfortable truths about how we apply scripture in our lives, especially in the context of cultural Christianity. Takeaways: In moments of testing, remember that God tailors our challenges to our personal strengths and limitations. It's crucial to read scripture in context to avoid misusing verses like First Corinthians 10:13. Cultural Christianity often leads us to excuse our sins by misinterpreting God's grace and mercy. God's grace is not a blanket for our actions, but a call to integrity and self-examination in our faith. We should regularly seek the Holy Spirit's guidance to ensure our understanding of scripture aligns with Christ's teachings. Engaging in self-reflection through journaling can help uncover areas where we misapply biblical principles. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal
- · 12 minVoice Notes | Why Your Faith Routine Suffers in the Summer (and What the Real Culprit is!)
We're diving into a new format today, and I couldn't be more excited to share my very first voice note episode with you! This episode focuses on the struggles many of us face during the summer, especially those of us with ADHD trying to maintain our faith routines when the structure of school disappears. I want to validate those feelings—you're definitely not alone in feeling like your schedule goes out the window when summer hits. We explore the impact of shame on our spiritual lives and how it can derail our routines, reminding ourselves that it’s okay to experience chaos and change. My hope is to encourage you to identify and break the cycle of shame, and instead, find small touch points with God that foster curiosity and connection, even amidst the chaos. Takeaways: In this episode, I shared my struggles with maintaining a faith routine during chaotic summer months. We discussed how the lack of structure in summer can impact our faith and daily lives. I emphasized the importance of breaking the cycle of shame that can hinder our spiritual journey. Curiosity can be a powerful tool to reconnect with God during emotionally challenging times. We explored the idea that having small touch points with God can be incredibly helpful when life feels overwhelming. I introduced a free resource called 'One Hour to Quiet the Noise' to help manage chaos and reconnect with faith. Download the Noise Journal here!
- · 16 minBite-Sized Biblecast | Finding Justice in a World of Performative Faith | Amos 5
Today, we dive into Amos 5, a passage that really challenges us to reflect on our own lives amidst the current climate of Christian nationalism in the U.S. It’s all too easy to point fingers at others while ignoring the issues lurking in our own hearts. As we dig into this scripture, we’ll explore the repeated biblical themes of justice and righteousness - concepts that are way more than just spiritual jargon; they're deeply rooted calls to action that demand our own personal accountability. I share my own journey from a former extreme conservative perspective to a more progressive understanding, emphasizing the need for self-examination and genuine compassion towards those in need. Let’s get uncomfortable together as we consider how we can align our priorities with God’s, ensuring that we’re not just critiquing the church and society but also looking inward and addressing our own sanctification. Download the noise journal here for free. Takeaways: It's essential to engage with scripture daily, even if it's just a verse or two to start. Amos 5 highlights critical themes of justice and righteousness that are relevant today. We must resist the temptation to point fingers at others without examining our own hearts. Christian nationalism is a significant issue in the US, affecting how we view our faith. Personal transformation often requires uncomfortable self-examination and accountability to God. Traveling can broaden our perspectives and challenge our prejudices towards those who are less fortunate.
- · 9 minHolding Leaders Accountable | 1 Kings 15:9-15 | Bite-sized Biblecast
Today's bite-sized Biblecast takes a deep dive into 1 Kings 15, where we explore the reign of King Asa of Judah. Asa stands out as a king who did what was right in the sight of the Lord, a refreshing narrative amid a very rough time of division and idol worship in Israel's history. His actions included completely ridding Israel of idol worship, even holding his own mother accountable for her idolatry. To be specific, he doesn't just scold her or verbally disapprove of her practices - he removes her from her station as the queen mother. This opens a deeply important conversation about leadership, accountability, and what we as Christians should be willing to accept in terms of behavior from those in power (particularly those who claim the name of Jesus). To put it frankly, friends, we need to hold Trump accountable for his blasphemy this week. And this starts by having conversations with those around us who still support him. Let's dig in together. Takeaways: In the Old Testament, King Asa held his mother accountable for idolatry, illustrating the importance of accountability in leadership. We have a responsibility to demand accountability from our leaders, especially those who claim to follow Christ. Having tough conversations with friends and family about their political support is crucial for holding each other accountable. The recent blasphemous actions of Donald Trump (specifically him posting an AI-generated picture depicting him very clearly as Jesus then blatantly lying about it, saying he thought it was showing him as a doctor) give us the opportunity to practice what we preach and hold him accountable. Examining our beliefs and how they align with our faith is essential for being true followers of Christ. It’s important to engage in discussions about accountability, and doing so without blatant confrontation is possible. If time with Jesus keeps losing to the noise, you're not failing at faith. You're doing faith with chaotic or even ADHD brain, in a world built for neurotypicals. One Hour to Quiet the Noise is a free guided journal. You'll find what's actually draining you, and walk away with one teeny tiny plan to clear it. One hour. That's the whole ask. Get the free Noise Journal Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 12 minOvercoming Evil with Good | Romans 12:19-21 | Bite-sized Biblecast
Today, we're diving into Romans 12, where we grapple with the powerful message of overcoming evil with good rather than seeking vengeance. This passage feels especially relevant as we navigate a world filled with conflict and anger. I share a poignant moment from a protest in Minneapolis, where a protester offered kindness to an ICE agent, illustrating how we can cross divides and choose compassion even in our most fervent disagreements. We often find ourselves clinging to anger and resentment, believing it justifies our actions, but we need to reflect on how this approach distances us from the grace we’re called to embody. Join me as we unpack this scripture and explore the importance of addressing our own hearts, seeking where we might be misdirecting our anger, and striving to act in love rather than vengeance. Takeaways: In Romans 12, we are reminded that vengeance belongs to God, urging us to seek kindness instead. The podcast exemplifies how crossing divides through kindness can create meaningful connections, even in conflict. The speaker reflects on the cultural tendency towards vengeance and its misalignment with Christlike behavior, challenging listeners to reconsider their attitudes. We are encouraged to examine our hearts for hidden resentment, as it creates distance from our relationship with God. The discussion highlights the importance of grace in justice, emphasizing that our understanding may need a biblical reframe. The speaker shares a personal story of apologizing for past actions, illustrating the importance of humility and self-reflection in our faith journey. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 15 minBite-Sized Biblecast | Sneaky Disobedience | Numbers 20:1-13
Today, we dive into the Book of Numbers, specifically the story of Moses and the Israelites, where Moses gets a little too sassy for his own good. As the people are parched and grumbling about their lack of water, God instructs Moses to simply speak to a rock to bring forth water. However, instead of following God's command, Moses loses his cool and strikes the rock, showcasing his frustration and pride. This seemingly small act results in a monumental consequence: Moses is barred from entering the Promised Land. We explore how this incident reveals deeper issues about obedience, pride, and the importance of recognizing our role in God's plans, highlighting that sometimes our own frustrations can lead us astray from what God truly desires for us. Join me as we unpack this intense narrative and what it means for us today. Takeaways: Moses's failure to follow God's command precisely highlights the danger of pride and anger in leadership. The Israelites' complaints in the wilderness reflect our own struggles when facing difficult situations and unmet needs. Even in our disobedience, God provides for us, demonstrating His grace despite our shortcomings. Moses's punishment for striking the rock instead of speaking to it emphasizes the importance of obedience to God's instructions. This story serves as a reminder that our actions can have lasting consequences, even when we are frustrated or tired. We should strive to align our responses with God's will, rather than letting our emotions dictate our actions.
- · 14 minBoundaries & Blessings: Navigating Tough Relationship | Bite-Sized Biblecast
Today, we're diving into the Golden Rule from Matthew 7:12, but we're not just rehashing the familiar line about treating others as we'd like to be treated. Instead, we're exploring some practical, often overlooked ways to actually implement this principle, especially with those tricky individuals in our lives. We’ll tackle the misconceptions surrounding the idea of turning the other cheek—it's not about letting others walk all over us, but about standing our ground with dignity and respect. Plus, I’ll share some personal tips on how to keep your heart soft and your relationships healthy, even when dealing with difficult people. So grab your journal, and let’s figure out how to love those who challenge us while maintaining our own boundaries! Takeaways: The Golden Rule is more than just a phrase; it requires practical implementation in our daily lives. Understanding the cultural context of Jesus' teachings can radically shift our perspective on how to treat others. Turning the other cheek is not about passively accepting abuse; it's about asserting our dignity and worth. Setting intentional reminders to pray for those we struggle with can create softness in our hearts toward them. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 10 minThe Heart is Deceitful: Trusting Truth in a Confusing World | Bite-Sized Biblecast
Today, we're diving into a thought-provoking exploration of Proverbs 29:27, where we confront the uncomfortable truth about how we perceive righteousness and wickedness. It's easy to dismiss criticism from those we deem untrustworthy, but this episode challenges us to reflect on our own understanding of truth. We share insights on how our hearts can deceive us and the importance of surrendering to the Holy Spirit for true guidance. It’s a reminder that even the most well-intentioned among us can fall into the trap of self-righteousness, believing we are right while potentially missing the mark. Join me as we unpack these ideas and strive to align our actions with the heart of Christ, seeking genuine righteousness instead of merely justifying our own interpretations. Takeaways: We need to critically examine our own interpretations of Scripture rather than justifying them blindly. The heart is deceitful and we should not trust our own feelings to discern truth. True righteousness comes from a relationship with God and guidance from the Holy Spirit. It's essential to recognize when we consider ourselves the standard of truth over others. The Pharisees thought they were right but were blinded to their own wickedness. Engaging with the Holy Spirit is the key to aligning our actions with genuine truth. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 14 minRejection sucks. Let's talk about it. | 2 Cor. 12:10 | Bite-Sized Biblecast
Today, we dive deep into the often painful experience of rejection and how it can shape our sense of community and self-worth. Using 2 Corinthians 12:10 as our anchor, we explore the complex emotions that come with feeling rejected, especially for those of us who are more sensitive to it, like many neurodivergent individuals. I share my personal journey, touching on moments of loss and the struggles of navigating friendships that have faded, particularly in a politically charged climate. Through it all, we remind ourselves that when we feel weak, we can actually find strength in Christ. Join me as we unpack the necessity of community, the importance of self-reflection, and the journey of seeking God’s approval over others. Takeaways: Recognizing that community is essential for our emotional well-being can help us navigate rejection. When we face rejection, we need to evaluate whether there is something we can learn from the experience. It's important to remember that not all rejection is our fault; sometimes it's a reflection of others' issues. Finding peace in our identity and value in Christ can help us cope with feelings of inadequacy or rejection. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 12 minBuilding Community When It's Hard | Bite-Sized Biblecast
Today, we're peeking into the often-overlooked book of Philemon, specifically focusing on the idea of community and fellowship among believers. The sharing of our faith, or koinonia, goes far beyond just evangelizing; it’s about the deep connections we form with one another as the body of Christ and, most importantly, how that impacts the Kingdom. In this episode we explore how the early church exemplified this community spirit and contrast it with the struggles we face in building genuine relationships today. I share my personal journey from being an introvert to thriving in community, only to face challenges that left me feeling isolated once again. But I’m here to encourage you: despite the difficulties, particularly the hurt of rejection, it’s crucial to reach out and seek that community, because we are stronger together. Let’s get into it! Takeaways: The concept of koinonia emphasizes community and fellowship among believers, which is often overlooked. Building true community as seen in the early church is a significant challenge we face today. Rejection is a common experience in seeking community, but it shouldn't deter us from reaching out. Spiritual growth can come from rebuilding community after loss, and it requires stepping out of comfort zones. Jenny Allen's book, "Find Your People," offers valuable insights into fostering deep relationships. It's important to engage in listening prayer to discern God's intentions for our community connections. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 57 minCommunicating for Repair in Relationships with Rach + Cam
Join us as we reflect on the ups and downs of our communication journey, sharing both the comedic and serious sides of navigating marriage together. Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship, and in this episode, Cam and I dive into our journey of navigating this crucial aspect of our marriage. Both being divorced and now happily remarried, we have learned valuable lessons about effective communication, especially in the context of conflict. We candidly share a recent disagreement over grocery shopping, which might seem trivial but actually reveals a lot about our communication dynamics and the deeper issues at play. By examining this seemingly simple issue of chocolate chips, we illustrate how misunderstandings can spiral into larger conflicts without careful handling. Throughout our discussion, we highlight the importance of creating an environment where both partners feel safe to express their feelings and concerns. We’ve discovered that listening actively and validating each other’s emotions are key components to resolving conflicts healthily. Our conversation sheds light on the necessity of addressing not just the immediate disagreement but also understanding the emotions and experiences that led to it. We reflect on how therapy has played a role in helping us develop these skills, allowing us to approach conflicts with a mindset geared toward understanding rather than defensiveness. We also touch upon the significance of setting clear expectations and standards of communication within a marriage. By sharing personal stories, we aim to resonate with listeners who may face similar challenges, encouraging them to prioritize open communication and empathy in their relationships. Our journey demonstrates that while conflicts are inevitable, the way we address them can lead to growth and a stronger partnership. This episode ultimately serves as a reminder that effective communication is a continuous journey that requires intention, care, and a commitment to each other. Takeaways: Effective communication in our marriage required significant effort and learning from past experiences. We've discovered that validating each other's feelings is essential for resolving conflicts healthily. Managing household tasks together helps alleviate the stress and ensures fairness in our relationship. It's important to approach disagreements with the mindset of teamwork rather than adversaries. Our recent conflict over grocery shopping highlighted the importance of understanding underlying issues. Healthy communication is a continuous journey, and we strive to improve together every day. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 1h 14mReddit Stories + Dropping Lore with Cam + Rach
Reddit Stories Disclaimer: While Cam and I (Rachel) are Christian and this is a Christian podcast, there may be some stories discussed that are not appropriate for little ears. These are not "Christian" Reddit stories - we are reading Reddit stories together and sharing our thoughts as Christians. Please listen with discretion! We're diving into some hilarious and thought-provoking tales from Reddit today! Our first story kicks off at 14:22, where we explore the tale of a father who challenges his daughter's boyfriend for wearing a rather inappropriate shirt to dinner. As we navigate through the drama and the family's reactions, we get sidetracked by our own tangents. We go on a particularly long tangent from 32:08 to 41:00, so feel free to skip through to the end if you're just in it for the stories. Grab your favorite snack, settle in, and join us as we share laughs, insights, and maybe a few side stories along the way! In this episode, Cam and I explore Reddit stories, but we get sidetracked with our own tangents about parenting and life. We share our thoughts on a Reddit post where a dad navigates the tricky waters of boundaries with his in-laws, revealing unexpected insights. Throughout the episode, we reflect on how our own parenting experiences shape our views on relationships and respect within families. Our banter reveals how we both handle parenting challenges differently, especially when it comes to navigating our children's relationships. We discuss the importance of communication and expectations in family dynamics, especially regarding child care and support from grandparents. Humor and honesty blend as we reminisce about our own experiences, making this episode not just about Reddit stories, but also about us as a couple. Want to submit your own story or have a question/topic you'd like us to talk about in a future episode? Email me! Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit
- · 27 minEpisode 52 | The Sunday School Answer: Are We Really Following Jesus?
We're diving deep into the wilderness today, exploring how it shapes our faith and our lives. Cam and I reflect on the metaphor of being in the wilderness, especially as it relates to trusting Jesus to guide us through life's challenges. We discuss the importance of recognizing who or what we look to for guidance and the power of having a supportive relationship, even amidst uncertainty. With a sprinkle of humor and some heartfelt insights, we share our own experiences of navigating tough times and the lessons learned along the way. Join us as we unpack how, even in the wilderness, we can find glimpses of the garden through our faith and relationships. Social Media Links: Instagram: @rachelgrit TikTok: @rachel.grit Pinterest: @rachgrit YouTube: @rachelgrit