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· 45 min· Season 4, episode 88

My Husband's Pornography | Real Questions, Real Answers

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About this episode

Audrey responds to a wife’s letter about her husband’s pornography use, addressing the pain, secrecy, and fear it can bring to a marriage. Through a Christian biblical framework, she urges wives to seek wise church support, distinguish their own responsibilities from their husband’s choices, and find hope in God while protecting and guiding their children.


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📚 Chapters

00:00 A wife asks how to face her husband’s pornography use

04:15 Why wives’ pain and need for support matter

07:01 Questions about faith, church leadership, and accountability

10:20 Seeking help without gossiping or betraying your husband

13:18 Respect, accountability, and the call to turn someone back

18:01 The spiritual effects of secrecy and pornography

22:08 Confession, repentance, and practical safeguards

25:21 Why a husband must take responsibility for his choices

31:22 Why wives are not their husbands’ investigators

34:10 Finding support and keeping your own walk with God

37:06 Grounding fear in faith and guiding your son

41:16 Seeking help, fighting for the marriage, and closing prayer


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